Tips Anger Management Best Motivational Speaker Corporate Trainer Delhi Gurgaon NCR India.

hi today we are going to discuss a very special subject on Anger Management very important for people in this world Now to control their anger it is very very damaging we all know we say anger is one letter short of danger D plus anger is called danger so anger will always lead to Danger we all know that still we feel helpless in controlling our anger we feel helpless how can we control our emotions we feel helpless how can we put a full stop on what I'm feeling like about well I must share with you controlling the anger is really challenging but we have found out a better idea rather than controlling anger what one must do is try to convert the anger into a resolution that is our today's subject about but we must tell where does the anger come from in bhagad Gita chapter number 16 and schloka number 21 Lord Krishna is explaining to Arjuna and he says toward the hell therefore all three three give them up the problem is it is a vicious cycle actually why is a vicious cycle because the moment of material desire what do we mean by material desire material desire means a desire which is illicit in nature a desire which is not regulated in nature not a prescribed desire the moment a ilicit desire comes the moment it gets fulfilled it gets converted into lobe that means degreed and when it doesn't get fulfilled it gets converted into anger Cod so there becomes a vicious cycle and a manager while practicing within his own organization he sees that he's helplessly reduced with his Effectiveness moment he wants his employees and his team to get something done when he sees they are doing it he wants to extract more of them when he sees they're unable to do it he gets angry upon them they will lose Faith they will all the more not follow what he wants them to follow so what to do here we've come up with a very powerful solution try to convert anger into a resolution when you convert anger into a resolution this is a powerful positive method of not negating the negative but cultivating the positive not negating the negative but cultivating the positive well I can I give you an example of Mahatma Gandhi we all know Mahatma Gandhi when he was traveling in South Africa and he had a first class train ticket in his hands the people there the foreign Nationals they picked up his luggage threw him out of the train and told him you have to travel on the third class you can't travel you're a black man you can't travel by first class in your train well Mahatma Gandhi felt very bad not that Mahatma Gandhi was a Mahatma that time what made him Mahatma let me share with you this is one of the powerful Expressions that he had come up with the understanding that he had he felt very angry upon all of them but what did he do he converted anger into a resolution he said I am angry but what will I do you threw me out of the train come back to my country I'll show you I'll throw you out of my country and that is called converting anger into a resolution well there are many more examples I can give you there is an NGO in America called mad Mothers Against drunken Drive mad do Google search on mad you will like that one lady once when she lost her son because people were drunk while driving she felt she was very angry that day and she went house to house home to home she went on door too knocking let us create a campaign against those who are drunk and then driving so then she helped signing petition by different people Mothers Against Drunk and Drive they created an NGO created a powerful Lobby and then came the rules in the law of us ofas and the whole world is following that when you are drunk you're not allowed to drive that's called NGO mad Mothers Against Drunk and Drive well even in the Vic Sans even in the Vic Scriptures it is said v v means when there is a negative argument being given by your mind praak bam immediately change your understanding shift there is an everybody has some mental switches one should learn to switch himself into an opposite direction for example if you're feeling angry convert into into a resolution or converted into a love what is a loving resolution we all know about chanaka Pandit he was the first existing Eastern philosopher ever had on the planet Earth gave powerful books on chanaka Niti his King was rajad dhandha he was a corrupt King and he was the adviser chanaka Pandit was adviser to this corrupt King called danand danand wanted to enter into all kind of prostitution gambling illicit sex all kind of intoxicating activities he wanted to enter he'll take the taxes from his people around him and he will enjoy the taxes so that's called a corrupt government chanaka Pandit advised him don't do that it is unfit for a king well what happened he felt very bad and he threw him out of his kingdom he said chak pundit never never enter back into my kingdom and he got very upset with chanak Pandit that day when chanak Pandit got insulted he also felt bad he wanted to convert the anger into resolution he said I will not be angry on you right now by expressing and shouting my anger is a resolution that I will throw you I will uproot your entire Kingdom and that is my resolution here danan these are my words and commitment I'm giving you what happened later on he picked up a small boy he trained him into becoming a powerful Global leader and his name was Chandra gupt Mora he trained chundra gupt morya into values and principles and he made him the king of an undivided country called India so he converted his anger into a resolution by uprooting an evil King he brought in a major transformation in the social change that he had brought in so anger is not bad but anger expressed thoughtlessly is very bad anger is not bad anger expressed thoughtlessly is not just bad it is very dangerous so therefore it is important that one must learn to convert anger into a resolution of course in the short time of this training program we can't give you a lot of solution you can always contact us and come back to us for more trainings into this that's today's program anger management thank you very much [Music]